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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi, so i really need help here, so please try your best and thanks a lot for the advice.Just the other day my friend thought it would be the perfect time to ask the guy i like, but i have a "shy" problem... I told her i would ask him out today but that back fired. Now i don't know if i should still ask him because i am pretty sure he likes me to!Proof: We always do the flirt look to each other.But i scared that after the first date he will reject me and not want to go out again. Because it would be the first time we ever talked. We haven't talked for about 2 years!So should i ask him and not be afraid?
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reader, lola1002 +, writes (28 April 2011):
Yes i say go for it girl. I did that when i was 17 i asked the guy i liked out, i was soo into him he liked me back , but he wasn't ready for a relationship.I vowed to myself never to ask a guy out but this one was the one i loved, so i said to myself if i have the chance i will take it.It was better on the phone because i was not as shy, he was shy too so he agreed lol but it did not work out well at the time.But now he is my future husband.It will not be the same as mine but do not be afraid what are you waiting for?But if you ask him to go cinemas, or lunch you can start talking there, ask for his number if you are really shy try texting first and see if he replies, if he doesn't assume he did not get the text and ring him, you shouldn't be shy on the phone try to talk to him and ask him out and see how it goes. am sure you will be talking properly after a few conversations with him.
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