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*pendy
writes:Why would he wanna hurt me so bad? it really hurts:(?My ex boyfriend had a one night stand with a girl at a party and was sleeping with another for 2months all the while I was with him.I loved him so much, was a good girlfriend to him, I never would've hurt him. Told me he loved me and never gave me a reason to doubt him or ever thought he was cheating cos we were together or talking on the phone.Then he dumped me out the blue and I found out what he was doing behind my back.I try asking him why he did what he did. He told me doesn't like thinking about what he did to me and I keep asking him and he hates me cos I make him so angry. Am so hurt.But am moving on, I thought I'd be devastated for too long but am thinking of him less now.Why would he hurt me like that? I did nothing wrong to him. I loved him.:
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (28 April 2011):
 Because he was a jerk. Not all men will do that, but his words were lies. If he really loved you, he would not have done what he did. You reminding him of that is why he's grown to hate you. I'd venture he never really liked you that much to begin with, he was using you. I'm very sorry that happened to you.
Not all men are like this one. There are some of us out here who have been through what you are going through now and couldn't ever fathom putting another person through the same thing. You are right that you did nothing wrong, and I'm glad you're getting over him. Give yourself the time you need, and best of luck in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): Why? Because he's a jerk who can't deal with commitment and responsibility. Not even the responsibility to give you a decent answer or apology. He probably wasn't even thinking about how it would hurt you. He only cares about himself. Shame on him.
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