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writes:okay ive been talking to this guy on fb chat and he says really nice things to me. he tells me im awesome, that im a babe, im hot that he loves talking to me. that he misses me and that he wants to see me again. but the thing is that ive seen him act all flirty to other girls. hes not my bf so i have no claim over him but i feel protective..like i dont want him to be talking to other girls.. i dont know if i like him but when i talk to him i get all fluttery and warm. i want to talk to him alot! the matter is that my intuition is telling me he might just be flirting with me.. im falling for him..hard and i dont know about him. he lives far away from him and the first time i saw him was only for a week and already over that time i was smitten.i would really like to know if other people thought that he might like me?what is it that im feeling for him? i just dont know! im soo confused!please help me
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 May 2011):
 not all flirts are players or womanizers.
I'm a huge flirt but insanely faithful to my boyfriend
i have a male friend who's young (age 29) who is an outragesous flirt...we flirt all the time.... i love his fiancee... she's a flirt too.
FLIRTING is not cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey, thank you for your answers
i have been with a guy b4 who new just the right things to say to get a girl to like him. this guy he just seems so nice and he does make the effort to know me..its not all flirting. is there no chance that he could like me? does it really sound like im just getting sucked into a player personality? i would like to defend him and say that hes not a player but the truth is im not sure and thats whats confusing. i asked him if he thought he was a flirt..he said im not sure i dont talk to myself.
could it just be my wishfull thinking that he might like me?
id like to think not but i just dont want to be sucked into a flirters womanizer world again.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (28 April 2011):
 You love the attention that you're getting from him. You like being told that you're awesome and a babe and that he's missing you. It makes you feel wanted.In reality though, someone who really loves you, will never think of you as an awesome hot babe. They will value you much beyond the superficial. He's flirting with you, like he does with other girls. Follow your intuition and the 0.01 per cent of your mind that tells you NO. Because you're going to save yourself a lot of heartbreak if you do so.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 April 2011):
you say you feel protective... personally I think you meant POSSESSIVE... big difference and not a healthy one.he probably is just flirting with you... you are one of many to him.that's not a bad thing at your age and if it's long distance...keep him as a friend... see him if you want... but be aware that long distance relationships in the best of situations (adults with the ability to see each other regularly who plan to end the distance with a set date, who trust each other, communicate regularly without games) are difficult and painful (I know I'm in one now)he might like you but he probably does not like you as much as you like him or as much as you want him to like youguard your heart young one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): mmmmmm if he flirts with other girls you think he really like you?You do not really know this guy do you? I think you need to let it go and get over it, because it was the same for me even if i had a bf, it was my friend i spoke to flirted with and i was feeling all protective. He was not doing the same to me, i think its a girl's thing which you need to let go.He is telling you what you want to hear, making your day it doesnt mean he is into you.Do not fall for him until maybe he falls for you.Right now you are just creating a fantasy world for yourself.I think he is just having a good time with you really and it may be nothing serious.Be careful.
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