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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I’ve been feeling bewildered lately, mostly because of work and a loaded school schedule, but also because I am yet to find love or so I feel. I want to feel the rush of nurturing a relationship into something beautiful; I want to find that certain person that fits like a well-worn glove. I’m just unsure if love will find me or if I should go out in search of it. As of now I am in a happy relationship, but obviously I am restless and feel emptiness inside. I suppose the excitement and draw I felt for my lover has gone and I’m seeking to replace it, but that’s just my guess.Is finding Mister Right really possible or is it just too tall an order for a dreamer? How would I go about finding him or should I even try? Is there maybe something that I can do to chase away these feelings? I want excitement, but I am afraid to lose the good thing I already have. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, zedd +, writes (10 February 2010):
In my opinion, there is no such thing as "Mr. Right". You want to find someone who is perfect but since we are all humans, none of us is perfect. However, you can find someone who will be the right man in the right place. Maybe it is your current lover, or if you think he is not, than go and experiment, look for someone else who fits your needs better. But don't expect anyone to be perfect, it also takes time to really fall in love with someone and to build a happy relationship.
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