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writes:(I have posted this before, but with less info, please don't delete this!)There is this guy in my school, he's in two of my lessons, and I think he likes me, but I'm not too sure.When we're in our computer class, he e-mails me (he always starts convos first-I never do, too scared XD) and we often have funny and quiet random conversations. Those conversations last for few days, the longest one was nearly for a week. He usual ends the conversations (much to my sadness) without replying back to my e-mail, and then he doesn't e-mail me for weeks, which upsets me a lot. Our last convo was few days ago, in which he said that he wanted to see me in town. This made me think that he likes me-he asked me out, didn't he?.. Also, in that convo, he ended each and every single e-mail with a kiss-'x'. Also, in one of our older conversations he told me that he had a dream about me, but he didn't told me what happened in it as (according to him) the dream was really 'pervy'.Another lesson that we have together is music, in which he doesn't talk to me at all. To be honest, he never does in person, only on e-mails. He completely ignores-makes me feel like I'm invisible. I try to ignore him back, too, but can't help but wonder why the hell he doesn't talk to me in person. I feel really upset by the fact that he doesn't even say hello or crack a smile when he sees me...Is that guy sending me mixed signals or what? I am really confused... I really like him-his e-mails make my day..Help is greatly appreciated, thank you so much!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (12 February 2010):
 These do sound like mixed signals. The emails sound like he likes you but the classroom behavior suggests otherwise. Do you ever catch him looking at you in class, that usually a good sign if he's interested. Then I would just say that he is shy, so try to watch for stuff like that. If you want to find out for sure you could ask him out and see what his reaction is. There is nothing wrong with you making the first move and if he is really shy he will probably be realieved. The only other thing I could think of is that he doesn't like you in that way but likes to talk to you when he is bored cause you reply quickly but that week long convo is making this seem unlikely.
So watch his body language or just go for it and see what happens.
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