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Me and my fiancee are trying again but can't get it right

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Question - (10 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, *p88 writes:

How is it going doc? Me and my fiancee have been trying to get pregnant since we lost our first child in June last year her period just came on today the 10th and her cycle for the last three months have been consistent at 27 days now this one came on a day late I was just wondering if I'm not fertile or are we just not getting the date right or I just don't know what too look for when her cervix opens I was wondering if you could give me some tips or help before her period goes off in the next 4 to 5 days? Thanks doc

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (10 February 2010):

k_c100 agony auntWell seen as this is a relationship site not a medical help site then all we can suggest is that you and your fiancee go see a real doctor!

We are not doctors here on Dear Cupid and although we try and help with medical questions, the only thing you can actually do to help you in this situation is to see a medical professional who can then run tests on you both to see if your fertility is a problem.

If you have been trying to get pregnant for over 1 year now (as in 12 whole months) and you are having sex frequently, then this would suggest there is a problem somewhere so a doctor will be able to help you.

But if it has been less than a year since your fiancee had a miscarriage then the doctor will probably send you away until the full year has passed and just tell you to buy a ovulation testing kit from the pharmacy and to keep on having lots of sex!

I hope this helps and good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010):

I dont understand why you list up the days, and this one came a day late? Our bodies aren't always like clockwork and not all women have very consistent menstruation. That however, shouldn't have much to say directly about the ability to get pregnant.

If you are trying to get pregnant, and if it doesnt happen by simply having sex all the time, buy one of these tests in the pharmacy that shows when she's ovulating and when it will be most likely for her to get pregnant. Also ask for hints and ideas on how to increase the chances. Talk to a doctor perhaps, since she has had a miscarriage already (I presume thats what happened last year) she might be at risk for having another miscarriage.

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