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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been talking to this girl for about 3-4 months but never actually had any deep conversations. I found out that she use to like me so deiced to talk to her since i did also like her. When i started talking to her she knew i liked her since her friend told her. After going to her house 1-2 times with bunch of people there i asked her if she had any feelings for me(at the time she was talking to some one else and really liked him) she told me she didn't have any feelings for me but liked me as a friend. Since that i stopped paying attention to her but it seems every-time i stop paying attention to her she will then flirt with me even more like stick her tongue out at me bend down in front of me ect. Recently i went to subway with her and her 2 sisters. when we talk we stare in each others eyes. She said she likes my haircut and i should cut it liek that. i always hug her when i leave. Her friend told me she said it would been nice if her sisters weren't there. She asked her whats going on between me and her and she said that i never made any moves. since she said she wants to be only friends i have gone to her house 4-5 times most the times people were there but one of the times it was just me and her and we had a nice talk about w.e. She will say stuff like why aren't i coming. She told me i look nice with my new haircut. It's been about a month and a bit since she said she only wants to be friends but i never really talked 2 her or anything when she said that and she was talking to another guy. Im very confused when i stop talking to her she flirts even more with me and stuff what should i do? sometimes when i talk to her she gives me short answers and doesn't ask about me and sometimes when i talk to her she asks about me, gives me long answers and wants to talk. Sometimes she lays beside me on the bed sometimes she sits Far away from me. What should i do?
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reader, rgreen120  +, writes (11 February 2010):
 seems to me like she is seeking attention.
When your not interested, she is.
When she is in a lonely mood, she will sit next to you and intive you round and talk to you but if she isnt interested when you try, she just leaves you short.
I think you should just leave her as a friend!
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