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writes:How do I NOT sound like an asshole to ask my fiancé to have vaginal rejuvination? We have great sex and a great sex life, but a lot of times I don't anything when I'm inside her. She has said she feels me but I feel nothing, and that is a first for me. I feel like an asshole everytime I think about it, but I want to it to feel as good for me as good as she says it does for her. Any advice?
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (10 February 2010):
Uh, too late... you already do...
You don't tell us what ruined her vagina. Did she have a 25# baby? Or is it that you're simply too small. I've never heard of a woman being too tight for an average size dick.
If I was he and you suggested that, I wouldn't need it... you'd be so gone so fast, and I'd find me a man who can fill the deal.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (10 February 2010):
 What!!! There is no way to ask her to have "vaginal rejuvination" without her getting angry and feeling very insecure. That's like asking you to ask the doctor to help make your dick bigger and thicker. Maybe that's the real problem. There's nothing wrong with her, your just too damn small....
Tell her, your sorry but you just don't feel her sometimes. Ask if she can try squeezing her vaginal muscles when you two are having sex. Kegel exercises (pelvic floor muscle strengthening) will help. http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/Kegel-exercises/WO00119
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (10 February 2010):
 I`m going to say bring that up without asking her and see what her reaction is. Then just try your best to slide the question in with all of your logic behind it. Now, if she freaks out just don`t go any farther, this is the only time where you could be in the wrong. Let her have her time and space without you getting mad if she completely shuts you down at first. She`ll think it over and get back to you eventually. Also be prepared to do something for her in return. I don`t know what but bring up the idea that you will be willing to try to make it up to her. As long as you remember that this is a big deal for her and take her feelings into account she should not think any less of you.
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