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writes: I just met this guy barely a month,he's my dream man. The only problem he has is that he gets angry wheneva a guy calls me,i dnt know what or how to pls Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): Who are the guys that call you? Are they long term friends? Has he met them? Are they 'hangers on' (people that you might fancy?) ? It is up to you to introduce your man to these guys and put his mind at rest. Be open and honest and let him speak to them or answer your phone - that way he will know you are relaxed and they are no threat. Ok he is a little posessive but cut him some slack.... if he got lots of calls from other girls would you like it? Just be open with him.. he will be ok.
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (10 February 2010):
I think you might need to give us a bit more information... you met him a month ago... are you just dating, or have you spent every moment together for the past month and are in a committed relationship? Who are these "men" that are calling you? Are these just "buddies" or are you dating /flirting with other men right in front of him? If I was on a date with a guy and he regularly took calls from women and chatted away in front of me, I would probably get upset too. What's the full story?
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (10 February 2010):
Hun, this is NOT a dream guy! He is showing signs of being very controlling and manipulative. And if he is behaving like this barely a month after meeting him, imagine how he is going to be treating you in, say... six months from now.
Think carefully about continuing this relationship.
Honeygirl
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 February 2010):
That means that he's controlling, manipulative, jealous, insecure and dangerous to you. You tell him to stop getting angry with you, and that you have the right to have male friends. If he still acts this way, dump him.
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