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female
age
41-50,
*urph79
writes: Hi,My current boyfriend is 54 and I am 30. The thing is i have always fancied older men.I have a stable family life and grew up with both my parents being there, i get on well with my dad.So i dont understand why i fancy older men? and not men my own age like all my friends?
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reader, chick989 +, writes (11 February 2010):
i feel the same, i'm 18 and my boyfs 50, it's just one of those things x
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reader, Kassi (Nova) +, writes (11 February 2010):
There isn't anything wrong with liking older men. I've always been attracted to men older than me. At first I thought I was simply attracted to the taboo of a relationship wherein most people would disagree with the age difference, but I simply discovered that older men were on my level. They're smart, they're done being irresponsible and reckless, and they're starting to feel their biological clock a bit, too. I'm aware that my attraction to older men comes from a need for stability, and equality.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 February 2010):
If you like older guys, you like older guys. I like older women and am dating one. There's nothing wrong with it. Have fun.
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reader, rgreen120 +, writes (10 February 2010):
Different people are into different things! Some women like younger men and some like older ! Maybe its the expirience you find a turn on? Or the grey hair! You shouldnt feel ashamed of what you like, you should embrace it!
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