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writes:I think a girl at work has liked me for awhile, but I screwed it up cuz I was just too shy and fearful to approach her and talk to her. She's gotten a bf since, but there just seems to be something there from time to time which indicates that there still could be something there. What kind of hints should I be looking for from a girl that can help me decide whether I should make a move or not? If not with this girl, then another one that will hopefully come along.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): If shes got a boyfriend then i would'nt make a move. Especially if she knows that you know shes spoken for, she may find your actions very disrespectful. You should make an effort to get to know this girl as a friend first a little harmless flirting is fine but don't over do it.
There is no particular way to know if a girl is interested in you, different girls work in different ways. sometimes if a girl who is generally quite a confident outgoing person gets shy around you this could be a sign. However there are girls who if they like you would make it painfully obvious and maybe even ask you out themselves. different girls work in DIFFERENT WAYS. If you catch a girl staring thats always a sign thats shes interested.
I'd just advise that you get to know this girl on a friend basis and if you really like her and she is something special maybe hold out until shes not with this guy anymore but that could take a longgg time. if i were you i'd get out there and just start experiencing other women don't think about signs on whether or not shes interested or whether to make a move, just go for it. women appreciate confidence and respect. there the two main things. they won't be interested in a shy guy. nice guys don't finish last if there confident aswell-there the best kind. x
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