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writes:my boyfriend doesn't like it when i smile at people and he told me that he doesnt like it and he always fight with me so help me what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (10 February 2010):
 Oh, I'm sorry - I misread you; I thought you meant he doesn't like smiling at people. I agree with the others, get away from this guy. Who doesn't like people smiling at others?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 February 2010):
Seriously dump him. To stop you smiling is a whole new low.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (10 February 2010):
 So help me this is not good for you, I think you should move on and find somebody who appreciates the fact you are friendly and prepared to show it with a smile.
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reader, veronika +, writes (10 February 2010):
 Tell him he doesn't own you and that you can smile whenever you like.
I mean, it's just smiling. What is his problem? He sounds very controlling, which isn't a good thing.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (10 February 2010):
Break up with him, his behavior is very troubling, as he's trying to take control of you doing a 100% normal behavior. If he was able to have a healthy relationship, he's be secure in himself and allow you to have joy and smile (oh, and at PEOPLE!- what a thought!!!)- no, he wants you NOT to smile (how sick) and then FIGHTS with you... DUMP HIM! RUN! Do not date men that try to control you- this is dangerous behavior, as he will NOT be able to succeed with you and likely to turn more angry, which is likely to turn physical in his last efforts to try to control you...
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (10 February 2010):
Pick your fights - this isn't that important as to constantly fight and put stress on your relationship. Maybe every now and then you could politely say something like "are you having a good time?" But do it sporadically. Or maybe just bluntly ask him why he doesn't smile much - many people who are happy just don't like to show it outwardly....perhaps he's one of those kinds?
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