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*nderstanding824
writes:ok i know this is wrong and i know that there could be conciquences for this but holding it in isnt getting me anywhere and i havent told anyone about this. i need to know if i should tell a certain female teacher (i am a female) how i feel about her. (she is single and in her late 20s...i think) there is no way that i can really tell for sure if she is bi or lesbian so if someone could tell me how to tell if she is by her behavior or something that'd be GREAT.im not sure about my sexuality exactly...im trying not to put a sure label on myself yet, and see where this takes me so...she is really pretty and young and when she looks at me, I stop breathing and my heart pounds really really fast. (shes my English teacher -.-) she may seem like she may be interested in girls…but im such an idiot I can barely speak to her when I get the chance to (I don’t want to be creepy and follow her around all the time so I hardly get to talk to her) i just needed to tell someone, anyone. But most of all, I just need to tell her..ok I feel SO much better nowthanks
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reader, understanding824 +, writes (9 March 2010):
understanding824 is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok so today i just heard that she just had a BABY last summer and this explains SO MUCH and i feel like REAL SHIT for this so im posting this as QUESTION CLOSED. (thought the problem isnt really solved..)
i feel really bad for this and the worst part is that i think she started realizing because my hand would shake whenever i handed in test papers and i'd blush whenever she looked at me...
soooo im done with forbidden love officially. its stupid, and pathetic and costs more than it gives so NO MORE.
i dont know if i can stop liking girls though after this...
TToTT
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reader, understanding824 +, writes (24 February 2010):
understanding824 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe one who wrote on feb 19, ur not lesbian i dont even know why you would consider it..this is different, im physically attracted to her...its been a while and i still like her. im scared to talk to her and i dont know if i should just forget this or not
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2010): Okay, this isn't really a reply but I feel the same! Not really but kind of. My maths teacher is 51 and I'm 14. She's like so nice and I look up to her! She's like a role model for me especially because we are the same nationality and my race aren't known to be educated much!So she's really nice and I love her (but not in a sexual way). The thing is, I get disappointed when she's not at school and I feel sad for like 10 minutes then I get over it!! Am I a lesbian. I don't think I am because I'm obsessed with Johnny Depp and Robert Pattinson! Whoa! I just answered my own question! Thanks for the help! I wouldn't have answered it if I hadn't written this down! So yeah, I guess I'm straight and love my 51 year old Greek maths teacher as a friend, a teacher and a role model and that's all!! Woo hooo!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010): I'm in the same situation, but you can't do anything. Whether she's bi, lesbian, or straight, you can't say anything until you're out of school. I'm not one of those people that's gonna say oh it's just a crush you silly girl or anything like that, because I believe people can be in love with their teacher. As much as I wanna tell my teacher, I know things would be bad if I told her, whether my feelings were reciprocated or not. It's a tough situation to be in, I know, but just wait it out. That's all we can do.
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reader, Stuart93  +, writes (10 February 2010):
Hello, I know how it must feel to love someone so much but so shy to even ask them out.. I am in love with my friend but I cant even tell her I love her, I did once and she laughed but still.
If your teacher seems to be flirting a bit with girls (Like talking softly and a bit not a lot but a bit dirty) she may be a Bi or Les, there are a couple ways to find out 1 is to email her from a fake Email address saying you are a student in the school that way you wont be found out and you will know, another is just to go up and say "I really fancy you.." that's all I can think of, though I do wish you luck.
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