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writes:My boyfriend and i are both still young (18 - 19 this year) He's only had one serious partner with a younger girl whereas my previous relationships have been with men 3 or 4 years older than me who have all been ready to settle down. I now feel that i wish to do the same. I love my boyfriend dearly but lately we've been arguing a lot and he only wants to spend time alone with me when it involves him getting what he wants (usually sex)! With valentines day coming up i really want to just spend a weekend with him, without his friends. I'm sure one weekend wouldnt kill him and i should be greatful that i get to spend the sunday with him but still what's so wrong with spending a weekend with the one you love. One out of 52 or whatever surely cant hurt! Help please! Reply to this Question
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reader, superwoman021 +, writes (11 February 2010):
i kinda have the same problem, so i understand where your coming from, and no it cant hurt, but from experiecnce its sounds like he doesnt see how much it means too you, especisally for valentines day, he should make an effort but hey thats guys for you. just try and let him know what your his girlfriend and all you want is one weekend, and see his reaction, that should tell you all you need to know. x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 February 2010):
Well, no it won't hurt. But maybe the problem is that he isn't mature enough yet. I think you should talk to him and tell him what you want to be honest. Sometimes guys wake up when told what to do. But if nothing changes, then maybe he's not the one.
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