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anonymous
writes: Me and my boyfriend were having sex unprotected. However, he always pulls out and then proceeds to ejaculate in his hand. We just started having sex not to long ago and this was maybe the 6th time we have? Anyways, after he pulled out and done came my butt felt wet? I asked him about it and he promised that there was no way my butt would feel like that because he was sure it all came into his hand so it had to be me who came. I'm not really sure what an orgasm feels like I don't think so I dunno. I guess my question is that, is it possible that I could've came and he pulled put when I was doing so? And it just ran down my butt? We were in just the regular missionary position. Please answer! It will be very much appriciated! :)
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reader, sweetspicy +, writes (8 April 2010):
 You might want to get a pregnancy test, deffinately get on birth controll unless you plan to have kids with this guy. Pre-cum has gotten women pregnant before. Just because he says hes going to pull out doesnt mean he did, and thats where my son came from.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank all of u that answered me. And as for my boyfriend he is 20. I am 18. He has had more expirience than myself. The whole pulling out method probably isnt the best one and I have been on birth control before. However it messed my menstral cycle up so I was not able to continue. And yes, we did use a condom the first few times but it didn't give either of us the pleasure we get whenever we don't use one.
I guess it'll be a long wait until I start lol. And I do believe that I will start being more careful and try to find a good way of protection.
Thanks again :)
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reader, old_moses +, writes (7 April 2010):
 Isn't sex wonderful? I've got to tell you though, find a better means of birth control NOW, before you have sex one more time. Being as you're young, I assume your partner is also. He releases significant sperm before he ejaculates and he probably isn't that sure when he's going to climax. Every time you have sex you have a 25% chance of getting pregnant.
Your wet bottom; his pre-cum, your vaginal fluids, and sweat.
Please see someone about birth control, please.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (7 April 2010):
 It was possible that he ejaculated and didn't want to tell you. It could also be a combination of your vaginal fluids and his pre-cum (which the penis produces as part of its natural functioning).
If you are using the pull-out method I should tell you that it is not a very good method of contraception. Out of 100 women whose partners don't practice it perfectly, 27 will become pregnant each year. Your guy may not be perfect at it as he is younger (I assume) and may not have as much practice at telling when he is going to ejaculate.
If you don't know what an orgasm feels like, then you haven't had one. Many people mistakenly think that all women orgasm through sexual intercourse alone, when in fact, only about a quarter do. The vast majority of women reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation and THAT'S what many young men and women don't seem to realize.
Your question tells me you are rather naive and not well educated when it comes to your body and contraception. You are going to wind up pregnant not ever having had an orgasm. I cannot stand to hear stories like this because the information is out there if you just look for it. Here are some links for you to get yourself some sex education. Look at my profile for more links.
Good luck and take care.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/your-guide-female-reproductive-system
http://men.webmd.com/features/6-sex-mistakes-men-make
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