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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:In short:How do you get a girl to like you??Long story:I've never kissed a girl, never had a girlfriend, never even really had a lot of female friends! Now I know some of this is due to the fact that I went to an all boys secondary school, but mostly because I'm just really shy!!Since coming to college, I've gotten more confident and outgoing, but I still can't get any girls to notice me. I'm fairly smart, and would describe myself as funny, don't really drink, fairly sensitive, but I always get looked over for one of my friends. I'm so sick of girls asking me is this friend single, or that friend available. It does my head in!!!! Not to mention the fact that its getting me really depressed.I do have a good few female friends now, and one in particular I really like. I thought we were really getting on nicely, but everytime I think we're hitting it off, she pulls back and gets really cold towards me. It's not like I've said anything bad, I barely even flirt with her!! But always the same reaction. Then the next day, or even an hour later, it's as if nothing happened!So, do all girls just like the badass, sporty guys??? Is there even any hope for me??
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reader, The pasionate one  +, writes (8 April 2010):
From wht i see i think u need to boost your confidence. How do you feel about the way you look? Or how do u feel about your personality? Do you like them? If you do, then thats what matters at the moment. Because then you'll feel more comfortable in what your doing. But if your not, fix it to your likeing. Fix it till your like dammm i look good or wow i cant believe im me, i love me! And when ur finally there put yourself out there if they ask is so and so available be lyke "no, but i am" and smile. if they want to they'll jump into your trap. You want a gurls attention? Compliment them! whether it be their hair, shoes, eyes, nails, or overall their whole self. They love it! Just a simple, "u look beautiful today" is greaat! And u say your smart so use it 2 your advantage! Gurls love a guy who is full of knowledge in the old noodle! If you dont flirt with a gurl they wont notice you! Be funny 2. U have to make the first move! If its a gurl you dnt know, grow sum balls, walk up to her, and introduce yourself!
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