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36-40,
*yperbunny
writes:I met a guy I really like, was seeing him intensively for about a month, but then I went away for a month to Thailand. When I returned I saw him once and then he didn't speak to me again for three weeks. I was upset as we were becoming quite close before I left for my holiday! I didn't answer his calls when he did start calling again, but he kept calling me. After a couple of weeks I decided to answer his call..I went to see him at his mums and he said he had been arrested and had to move back to his mums and had alot going on...he wasnt acting very nice around me, I think he was feeling a bit edgey because I was at his mums...he seemed moody and uptight..anyway later in the week I text him and said for him to come and stay at mine as it would be more comfortable than his mums living room!Anyway he took a week after that to call me, so I ddint bother picking up.. he called me about 6 times and then after abad hang over saturday I texted him 'DELETE my number and dont call me again' --- reason being that I was annoyed at the time it took him to call me after I text him and just felt as though he was suiting his self with me...he called me after I texted him that but I didnt answer and i havent heard from him since... I do still like him, but I'm annoyed with his 'suite his self attitude' do you think I did the right thing? or was i being irrational? if he likes me enough will he still chase me after a text like that??what shall i do? x
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 Why would he? "Delete my number" can't really be misconstrued. Nobody wants to be known as a harasser.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 April 2010):
I don't think so. If he wasn't bothered before, he won't suddenly be bothered now to be honest. You'd do better moving on
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 He could have text you and you would have read it. If he has determination to chase you , nothing will stand in his way.
It looks like he has move on.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (7 April 2010):
I think you need to sort yourself out first. You are confused to say the least and why Oh why have you got to move someone in after a month or less? How insecure are you? Go to your GP and ask to see a counsellor, it is your actions that concern me not his.
In the meantime get back out there and do not let men use you ?
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