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writes: i know this post might sound a little stupid but i keep having weird dreams every night.dreams that involve me getting accused cheating on my boyfriend and he ends up leaving me, its really long dreams, have dreams that my boyfriend is holding a baby boy in his arms and im pushing a pram... i dont mind these dreams but sometimes they are so sad that i wake up with tears and i think about that dream all day. is it normal to be having dreams like this? and do you know what it means? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, asdfg +, writes (7 April 2010):
I had an experience with this recently. I had weird feelings that my bf was cheating on me (and some evidence to back it up), and then I dreamt that he and I were standing by a swimming pool with a plastic sheet on top of it, and he just pushed me in and I suffocated and died.
...as it turns out, he was cheating on me, but I suppose that's beside the point.
Anyway, like some of the others have said, it's a subconscious thing, at least according to psychoanalytic psychology. This is something Freud always believed, though it's still up for debate even today.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): I think it is showing insecurities in yourself, it may stem from past relationships in your life.
If you can find the cause where it went wrong for you and face those fears then the dreaming should stop.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (7 April 2010):
Did you experience any relationship traumas? Do you feel guilty or insecure about your b/f?
This could cause you to have those weird dreams.
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