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writes:my boyfriend and i has been in an on and off relationship for a year. we just recently broke up due to his continuous cheating and lying games. i just found out that he has been trying to talk to my cousin and asking her to come chill with him or what not. that hurts me so bad because i even knew it but i didnt want to start assuming it but when i ask him about it he gets mad then he be like i cant get mad because he be talking to her. but he comes telling me how much he loves me and he still wants to be with me. if he is so call still in love with me then why are he doing these things to me? i have been pushing away a lot of good guys for him lately because i really love him and want to work things out but i see he still wants to play games. it hurts me a lot because i have been putting up with a lot with him and my past relationships. i admit sometimes i can act a lil bitchy but what gives him the reason to do me like that? i have bent backwards for him. its like when he calls or text me he ask me to come over and i jump real quick just to go over there. i see i be treating my family and friends wrong all because of him. i just want to get over him and move on with my life. but its hard to do when you really love someone. the last time we talked was the other day. he told me to leave him the [f] alone but he always say that and he always come back trying to run game. but we havent talked in like 2 days now and im kind of glad because i needed to cut off contact with him. i just need some answers on how to just move on with my life even. can anyone plese help me???
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reader, raiders +, writes (7 April 2010):
 you already see he is a lousy boyfriend just imagine how your life would be if you marry him. You see there is no future between you two so cut the relationship short have respect for yourself. Think on your dignity and how this guy is using you as a stepping stone, think on the negative impact and how his presence makes you sad instead of happy most of the time. Once you can come to term that this guy is not worth your pain or tears you will see more clearly. Go out have fun don't take him back and soon you will see that you are ready to date. Good Luck and think on your happiness.
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reader, rachibear87  +, writes (7 April 2010):
It is really hard getting over some one you are so madly inlove with. But if you stay around and try and work things out with him..will it work ?
You say you have been pushing away alot on good guys why ?
Go out have fun ! Get over him. Its gonna be hard but it'll be worth it. Maybe reason with him and just be friends ? that way you have him in your life but he isnt hurting you emotionally like he is now ? Hope everything goes okay. Take care x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 What are your priorities in your life?
Focus on them and soon he will fade away from you .
Reconnect back with your old world and what you have missed since the day you were with him.
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