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*agmo2010
writes:There are two important men in my life, how do i know which to choose to be with? One of them are my childrens dad and the other is a rebound relationship, and im ingadged to the rebound guy and he does things i dont approve of all the time and my childrens father dumped me and our daughter in texas neither are perfect and i dont know how to make up my mind please help me make sense of all this Reply to this Question
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 Do you really have to pick one of them? Out of this whole, big world could there possibly be a Bachelor #3 in your future? Someone you've yet to meet. I think so. Rebound relationships never amount to much. Ex-relationships are always a bad idea, otherwise why would they be our "ex"? My guess is, you are afraid of being with no-one while you look for someone else. This is dangerous, and many a gal will make horrible choices when they are in this mind-set. Don't get stuck with either of them. There is a 3rd choice out there, you just haven't found him yet.
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reader, raiders +, writes (7 April 2010):
 How about you dump them both. Your ex is your ex he already left you once, your re-bound guy is not playing his cards right, maybe you will be better off alone. Give yourself time to think on what you really want, you don't have to be in a relationship to be happy. Take time off and think you might find happiness in someone else that does not involve either one of these guys but how would you know if your always hooked up with someone, give yourself time.
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