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female
age
30-35,
*P1993
writes:Hey guys. Straight to the point. I'm way too jelous. Not like, most women are about their boyfriends, but i'm jelous to the point where, if me and my boyfriend are walking somewhere and he sees some girl he knows, i get so jelous and go in a mood. I hate being like this but i hate him talking to any other woman other than me, because i'm so insecure. He loves me so much and never looks at any other woman, and says he thinks i'm the most beautiful girl in the world ect. But i still cant seem to get over the jelousy. Help me please! X
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 A lot of your jealousy is due to your age. As you get older and more secure of your feelings you become less worried about those kinds of things. The fact that you are aware you are like this and want to do something about it is awesome. Think to yourself "what's the worst thing that could happen?" Could he fall in love with someone else and leave you simply by talking to them? Not likely. The worst thing that could happen in this situation is that he will get frustrated at your jealously and leave because of it.
You also need to realise that if the guy is that flaky that he would leave you just from looking at or talking to someone else you really shouldn't be with him anyway.
Hope this makes sense.
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