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writes:Well my boyfriend and i have been dating for 6 months and before we dated he told me he wasn't a virgin and that he wished he wasn't because it hurt me when we did start dating. he knew i cried and tried to talk me out of it all of the time but i couldn't help the sadness and pain it brought upon myself. so we got in an argument and he said he needed to think so he came back and 1 hour later and told me he had been lying he was a virgin and was sorry for ever letting me think he wasn't. i got upset cried my eyes out got pissed broke my picture of us. what should i do? help please im begging Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 April 2010):
 Why does it matter so much to you? Either way?
Do you love him for him or for the potential that he may or may not be a virgin?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): to be honest , he told you at the start that he wasn't a virgin, so it was highly irational of you to be so upset, and the only reason he said he was now is because you made such a massive fuss over it in the first place
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): If I were you I wouldn't trust him mich. He probably just said that he was lying to you about not being a virgin to make up for how it made you feel but as well because he probably didn't want you to leave him for that. I think that he wants to get to do more things with you later on and maybe that's all he's focusing on at the moment, which is why he could've told you that he was lying about not being a virgin.
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