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writes:I am 15 years old and my boyfriend wants to go further.. I am not quiet sure if i am read tho. I want to go further but I dont know how to.. We want to go into specifics. He isnt a Virgin and I am .. We dont want to have sex or anything.. I told him that will have to wait. Im not ready for sex yet.I always tell him i will take care of you.. I can give you a Hand Job or a Blow Job.. He always says well what do you want me to do to you?I always say i dont know or i dont care.. I just get really nervous when we talk about it.. I love him to death and all and want to go further but in a way i dont.. Please help me..
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reader, C.C. +, writes (21 May 2012):
I totally get where your coming from! I want my boyfriend to tell me what he wants first...But i think if you have anything in mind for you and your boyfriend your should (lightly) mention it to him if it ever came up in conversation again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): dear girl.. i have been there too.. just like everyone else, i advise you not to do it.. 15 years old is way too young.. he can never take care of you if you got into trouble (he cant even take care of himself).if he ever ask 'what do you want me to do to you?', have fun with it.. tell him he could take u out to an expensive dinner or movies or even do your nails.. hehehe.. i am sure u care for him a lot.. but remember, the first time is always the one that you will remember for a long2 time.. if he ends up a jerk, do u want to remember your regret for giving urself to him...? if he is great, then it will not be a problem to wait several more years.. by the way, to make a guy loves you is not just by sex.. believe me (",) be smart k..
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reader, Tay.Lak.Fish +, writes (7 April 2010):
Tay.Lak.Fish is verified as being by the original poster of the question oh thank you so much that really helps me a lot.. to answer some of your questions..
He always tells me he loves me and he always says he respects my decision. I asked him If he would ever dump me if i didnt want to do something.. He said no never.. He is emo and he takes stuff very seriously.. I trust him.. I hope he wont back stab me..
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reader, sugarplump +, writes (7 April 2010):
No. don't do it. no telling if he really loves you. he will say he loves you but does he mean it? if he loves you he will Waite. your still young don't be in a rush. female to female opinion i wish i had waited till i am married. don't give give a blow job. sweety try to stay away from that as much as possible ok. if you have any questions or you want to talk to me you can contact me on my screen name. feel free to ask.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): I was in a relationship for 3 yrs. I was almoust 17 yrs old and a virgin and he was 5 yrs older than me when we first met..after a month of being together he wanted to brake up me because i didnt wanted to have sex with him..but i did it just so i can keep him next to me,He was the love of my life and my first boyfriend,but it ended up preety sad..i've waisted 3 yrs of my life with him..he never told me: "i love you" and he was cheating on me so much..
I think you should wait..specialy with sex..because you have nothing to lose..i mean sex is great but later on you'll be proud of your self for waiting for the right guy and right time. And you are so young,you're a teenager!..you dont need to take everything in serious...My opinion is if he realy love's you he should respect your decisions no matter what..But dont make the mistake i did to sleep with him just to keep him next to you..because later on you may regret it..Take care girl!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): I think that if you aren't ready you shouldn't be doing those things yet. Also, if you don't think you're ready yet then you probably aren't, so you probably shouldn't be thinking about doing those kinds of things yet. The nervousness should go away with some time as you get more comfortable with talking about those topics with your boyfriend. Make sure that you're ready and you're sure about it before moving on to doing any of those things.
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