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writes:Ok ill make this quick- i recently have been texting a guy, in which we both have the intention to see where things go. Be it just friendship, sex, or more. I really sense he's a genuine guy from what i previously gathered and learned from talking to him. Anyways we planned on meeting up but being easter weekend and the next weekend he has drill circumstances are in the way. I understand he is busy and its clear he's a dedicated worker, responsible, and picks up some of the slack at home. Im cool with the fact hes a slow responder and understanding hes busy a lot. Thing is, his unit was called in last week to clean up the flood in his state but he still managed to text me when he could. But monday, back to his regular day job, he texts me in the afternoon saying "hey good morning how are you?" i responded but he never replied. I suggested he call me that night ic he werent busy and i guess he was, which is ok. So i texted him again saying i had hoped all was well. Today, same thing. "good morning how are you?" i told him i was good and missed him yesterday, but no response all day. I eventually texted him "im sorry i dont mean to be annoying or maybe your not recieving my txts but if your just busy would mind letting me know so im not confused or worried?" on one hand, i think, ok he texts me to see how im doing while perhaps being so busy- I was on his mind and he initiated both days. On the contrary... I have nothing accept im frustrated he initiates and doesnt respond all day and then same thing next day. Im confused and i actually lkke him, want to get to know him better, so forth. Im trying to take this at face value, but any insight would be nice. Thanks =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2010): Well I don;t know what happened to the guy who left two comments on here but he asked for an update so here I am.
I had every intention to call him tonight, but he ended up texting saying he was sorry for being so busy lately and actually carried a bit of a convo out. So I know hes alive, it wasn't that he was disinterested ^.^
Thanks guys! I just lucked out I guess haha
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 Could it be his friend or room mate sending those texts without his knowledge?
Just call him up and speak about this issue.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (7 April 2010):
 Simple, ..dial the number instead of texting it, then you can talk to him, ask if he is ok, if he has gotten your messages, etc, etc.
Should not be a biggy, ... just explain you thought the messages might not have been getting through and you did not want him to think you were not answering.
Jobs done!
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