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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi, i'm 26 male n just got married a couple of months back. My problem is that i'm upset/angry whenever i think of the sex my wife had with her ex-boyfriends and it haunts me like i wish i were dead. She told me her past life with whom she slept with n etc...... And now when i see or people talk about that persons i'm angry or pish-off with my wife. And sometimes i regretted marrying her...How can i overcome this problem please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010): its depression, may be the clinical one and you must deal with it.....and go see a psychiatrist....hope he will help.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): its called retrograde jealousy. And truth is my friend you will never get over it. So either try to cope up with the situation or just leave her. Get a divorce.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 This is a common problem. You know it's not fair to be angry with her for this right? It's understandable that you are, but there is nothing she can do about it now, so your anger at her is only going to make the situation worse.
I have written a lot about this subject (i have been in your situation myself). I suggest you take a look at these links, plus you will find much more in my previous replies also:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-would-not-have-married-her-had-i.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/retroactive-jealousy--how-do-i-overcome-it.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-cope-with-my-husbands-reaction.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-insecure-about-my-girlfriends-past.html
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reader, terrifenby  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 You married her knowing about her past. For one respect the fact that she told you about it, not many people like to tell current partners about their previous sexual encounters. I dont know what to say other then just deal with it and get on with been a good husband. She married you and all the people she has slept with in the past..well they are exacty that in the past! Hope i have helped Good luck
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reader, Kenj +, writes (16 April 2010):
 If she is not sleeping with others now then you have to let this go and look forward to the future instead, did she not tell you all this before you got married?
Some questions.
Is she trying to make you jelleous for some reason?
Are you paying her enough attention?
Are you giving the respect a woman needs?
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