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He's big -- is there anything we can do so it won't hurt?

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Question - (16 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hiya,

me and my boyfriend are sexually activee butt we measured his penis at it is 10 inches so it hurts is there anyway i can prevent it from hurting??

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (16 April 2010):

research the matter on the web, there are positions that create more distance from your cervix to his balls, like spooning. Your bottom adds an inch or two vs. him entering you missionary style, so he can't trust as deep.

Play around with it, listen to your body and response appropriately.

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (16 April 2010):

C. Grant agony auntYou might stick to positions where you control the depth of penetration. So cowgirl rather than missionary, for example.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (16 April 2010):

Not My Name agony auntDepends in what way it is hurting. If it is the width of it then there is not much you can do besides take it slow and use some extra lube.

If it is the length that is a problem tell him to not thrust as hard or deep so it is not banging in to your cervix and causing pain.

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