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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My man and I had been going out over a year all of a sudden he started talking about this girl at work and how cool she was...next thing they are texting all the time etc...He went to a party with some friends from work and was gone for 4 days. I was calling and texting him to see what was going on the only text I got back was "at so and so house, out of minutes cant text". I hadn't heard from him until 4 nights later and it was a text saying Y arent you here in my bed? So I replied "this is Laura"...He ended up kind of texting me here and there...Then we hooked up and he said he missed me etc. we went out for a drink and guess who just happened to come with us...yeas the chick from work...me and him ended up in a big fight in front of her..we broke up an hour later he was banging her at his house...His roommate is my bestfriend and she called me to ask what was going on...A couple weeks has gone by my dad died and he has been trying to get back with me...He denies sleeping with her (she has a man and they all work together)! finally he kind of admits it but said he felt like I didn't love him anymore...and he would like to get past this and start over...I think he wanted this girl so fought with me and now he done with that and is trying to get me back...
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reader, sexi suga  +, writes (17 April 2010):
darling im sooo sorry to read this... its really made me emotional to hear what your going through... all i can say sweetie is dont be second best... not for anyone...he is playing with your mind tryna lay the blame rather then take responsibilty for his actions... everyone has a choice in life to deal with a problem in a relationship/ marriage or to jump into someone elses bed and run away from the problem... he made his choice... instead of talking to you about how he felt (or how he says he supposably felt) he jumped into bed with someone else making more problems...seriuslly sweets any women is better then that, commincation is essential in making and maintaing a relationship... and it doesnt look like you have that.. someone who has no consideration by nor callin u for 4days to see if you were dead or alive is just not right.. even friends call more than that... chin up hun and go get yourself someone that treats you like you are their world coz that what any women deserves... to know that they are their partners world :)
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