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reader, terrifenby  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 If you dont want to mess it up then you have to tell her how you really feel. I mean girls can get bored very quickly when the men dont be a bit more upfront about how they feel. And whether you have been flirting for only a week or not.. flowers are still a good idea. Or get her some chocolates what girl doesnt like those! lol!
Good luck
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reader, SadnessAndSorrow  +, writes (16 April 2010):
SadnessAndSorrow is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol Ive only been flirting with her for like not even a week. I don't think I should be buying her flowers. I just wanted to know how to let her know that I'm interested in her.
Shes a cool gal and I don't wanna mess this one up
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010): then i think most of all spending time together in a group setting gives you an opportunity to get to know one another. once you have spent some time together she will get a feel for who you are and how you respond to everything. she will know when you are serious..good luck, mal
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reader, hpoco  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 Well, if you aren't ready to "make a move", then you could just talk seriously with her more often. Ask her about her plans for the future, her family, what she likes etc... Show that you are interested, in a non-flirtatious way. Maybe that will add some weight to the flirting you do.
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reader, SadnessAndSorrow +, writes (16 April 2010):
SadnessAndSorrow is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol Ive only been flirting with her for like not even a week. I don't think I should be buying her flowers. I just wanted to know how to let her know that I'm interested in her.
Shes a cool gal and I don't wanna mess this one up
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010): Another vote to just send a clearer message.
It sounds like she probably would be interested.
If you're flirting sexually and she isn't sending any negative feedback at you, then there are two possibilities: Either she feels TOTALLY sure that you don't really mean to do anything for real, or else she is interested.
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reader, terrifenby +, writes (16 April 2010):
I agree with what the other posts says. Stop flirting and actually make it clear you like her...
Flowers is a good choice..
Or even better one be brave and tell her you like her. Maybe give her the flowers at the same time!
Good luck
:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010): yes i agree. get serious for a change. mal
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reader, hpoco +, writes (16 April 2010):
If you are bold enough, do something really non-jokey like buy her a flower, or ask her out. That sends a clear message!
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