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*mij
writes:i am little shy to ask. but want to confirm. my husband's penis is dark and has a bent. is this normal? his sexual desire is very much, that he used to have sexual relations with his paternal aunt. does his penis particularity got some thing to do with it?he says that he dont have any such relation with her these days, but when ever i see them talking and indulging closely i feel very uncomfortable. how can i handle this situation. can i believe what he says?
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reader, Organ Donor  +, writes (20 April 2010):
 Penises sometimes are bendy. Its called Peyronie's disease, though its not actually a disease.
Dont be daft, its nothing to do with his love for his aunt. Thats a separate matter altogether.
Ask about his love for his aunt if thats the problem.
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reader, smij +, writes (17 April 2010):
smij is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfeel so light now! thank you all...
he told me all past himself. i dont hate him. he was at age 16-17 when he used to have sex with aunt.
she initiated the things in name of sex education.
what i thought was this penis bend and darkness is because of early sex.
he is very straight in behavior. he tells anything and everything to me. when ever he feels interest in other woman he tells it to me - including what makes them attractive sexually.
i love him very much and know that he is mine. same time i have a irritating feel when i see this aunt tries to talk or indulge closely with my man.
though i am confident of him, i think my possessiveness has something to do with these things.
we don't have any other problem with this aunt and she used to be very helpful. i feel that mistakes can happen to anybody.
what i was thinking how to get rid of this insecurity feeling??????? how can i be more confident?????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): if u love him stay with him...the past is the past....look forward not back....good luck...
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (16 April 2010):
 The bend in his penis is completely normal for a guy. Some girls even prefer that.
However if he's had sex with his aunt, that's messed up. You'd be better off with someone who doesn't have these weird tendencies. This clearly bothers you a lot so to leave him would be a weight off your shoulders.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 Ummmmm
hmmmmm
Well let's see, my penis is very thick, bent upwards, and darker than the rest of my skin my a tiny bit.
Does this mean I have sexual feelings for my dead aunt that, if there is a God, would be in heaven?
I am going to go with no.
The reason for that is it is just an erection.
Nothing more, nothing less.
His erection is there for you now.
It WAS there for his aunt, but not now.
I lived in Kuwait for five years, and it is country with many different cultures.
Are you in the arabian culture or are you an expatriot.
I would say, if you have your doubts, end the relationship.
Again...
If you have your doubts, end the relationship.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (16 April 2010):
 His penis shape has nothing to do with his sleeping with his aunt. And EWWWW...can you say ILLEGAL?!??!
There HAS to be more to this story than what you've written. Was he having sex with his aunt while you two were dating??? I feel like I need a shower after reading this question.
But no, many people have bent penises, and it's not caused by incest. :|
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