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writes:Ok I know this is probably a commonly asked question, not just on here but among women in general but I'm too embarrassed to talk to my girlfriends about it.My boyfriend and I have been together a year and our sex life has always been amazing but just lately he's never in the mood. It just happened all of a sudden, one week everything was great and now it's not.I know this can be down to lots of things such as stress but I can't help feeling that he doesn't fancy me anymore, especially as he hasn't been as kissy/cuddly as he usually is.I'm trying to be patient and realise that it might not be anything I've done and I'm trying to be understanding but it's always in the back of my mind and it's affecting the rest of our relationship. How do we get through this? Any advice much appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010): It can be a series of things of why he is just not in that mood nomore? Depression,stress,family problems, and much much more . I bet there's time where you just feel like he doesn't want to touch you or make you feel like a woman? Don't feel bad this is very common. Why don't you try to spice things up in the bedrrom. Costumes,toys, and roleplay are very great ways to turn a man on. He may also have low libido due to maybe not enoug sleep. Is he having problems sleeping? Overworking himself, is he coming home in a bad mood omplaining about work a bit angry? Those are all causes that can bring problems in a relationship with no sex. Talk to him about it let him know that you have need and that you are willing to help or listen him out. Goodluck.
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reader, terrifenby +, writes (16 April 2010):
 Some times just as women do men lose their mojo. Sit him down and talk to him, dont jump in saying 'why do we not have sex anymore'. Ask him how he is, hows work ect ect... Some times men just need to talk as things get bottled up. No offence to any men reading but men are not as good at expressing their feelings as women are, and we have to work that little bit harder to figure things out. Or cook him a romantic meal and slip on as they say 'something a little more comfatable' But talk to him first some times thats all it takes! Best of luck :)
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