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writes:My ex tried to reconcile with me by taking t slow. I freaked and told her to stop stringing me along(believing she was just trying to be friends). I teally hurt her feelings. She told me that we broke up bc I pit other things infront of her in my life, and that she thought that I had changed. She now says that she realizes that I haven't and doesn't want to start anything between us now. I have changed but was confused about getting hurt. The past couple days I have thought about it and I realize that I can't tell her I have changed but I need to show her. I am going to tell her that I want us to be friends and on goodterms even if is is hard for me, because she being in my life as a friend is better than not at all. I'm hopng she will realize that she was a priority and we can start over bc she obviously still cares. Will this work, is there something else that would be better to do? I am giving her a few days to "cool down" before I call so we don't get emotional about it.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 If you want to get her back , you need to keep your communications lines with her open.
Being a friend serves that purpose and whether you will graduate back to that phase or not will depends on how you keep her interested in you .
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (17 April 2010):
 I dont get it.do u want her back as a friend or as ur girlfriend?
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