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writes:I was with my bf for a yr. The first summer with him was amazing. Starting off after the summer I found out I was moving. Even though I was moving we decided to stay with each other. After I had left he started to hangout with my cousin. She is a major hoe. They ended up partying that night and got trash to the point where they f**ked in my room on my bed. I didn't find out about it until 8 months after.My mom had told me she thinks they have been messing around.My cousin that had f**ked him told my other cousin which told me because I kept bragging about how much I loved him. I didn't want to believe her and told her it wasn't true. Thats when she broke down and told me what my cousin had told her.I was pissed I called him and asked what the was he thinking of messing with my cousin. I asked him why he didn't tell when it happened. He said he didn't want to tell because he didn't want to lose me and knew that i'd break up with him.He started to cry and kept saying I'm sorry and I love.I decided to stay with him because he is my first love. But I can't get over the fact that he f**ked my cousin. Who has been with almost every boy in our town. Ugly or not.Since we have been together it keeps coming up that he messed around with her. I dont know if I can get over knowing the fact they have been together. I don't know if I should stay with him or not. I mean I love with him with all my heart but it hurts knowing he did that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): you are making a mistake. he already cheat on you with your COUSIN!!! how could you stand the humiliation? if he really loves you, he should have at least consider this. i mean, its your cousin for goodness sake.. if u ever got together in future, do u think u could have family function together?? it is bad if a boyfriend cheats with another woman, but with ur flirty cousin is kinda worst.. this time your whole family knows. what is worst, they could have talk behind ur back bout this relationship. move out!! if he is really the one, he will come back to u.. but for now, don't get tied up with a guy who don't have much respect for u.. build up the courage.. read motivation book on how to break up.. i suggest 'its called a breakup because it is already broken' by the same guy who wrote 'he is just not that into you'.. it helped me to end my first relationship and yet i still have my pride (he-not so much.. hehehe),us woman are not suppose to accept cheating boyfriend as a daily routine.. it will kill u..
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (17 April 2010):
 Staying with someone because they are your first love is not a good enough reason. He's your first love, but not your last. You are too young to be having all of this drama and you do not need to get so emotionally tied up in someone that you allow them to make a fool out of you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 April 2010):
You did the wrong thing, I think. You're a young woman, and you should be having fun. You should not be dealing with a cheating boyfriend or committing to a man who doesn't care. You can find a better guy elsewhere.
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