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writes:I usually know what to do but right now I'm CLUELESS.I'm very close to this guy who I have known for awhile. We don't live close anymore due to me moving to Germany. Him and I talk every night and webcam a lot. The other night while on the phone he asked if I liked him. I wanted to say no but I always tell the truth so I told him I was starting to. He sighed and said, "I like someone else and I don't want to hurt you. Sorry." I told him there's nothing to be sorry about, I should have known. That night I got to thinking, if he doesn't like me than why does he always call me beautiful and get jealous when I talk about other guys? Yesterday he told me the girl he liked and him were dating. I lied and told him I was happy for him. I ended up crying myself to sleep. He's been going through a LOT with one of his best friends and we've been talking non-stop. When we webcam and I say I look horrible he tells me I'm beautiful and I should stop saying that. I also brought up my new boyfriend and he automaticly changed the subject... Am I just confused or is he really sending mixed signs?
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reader, xsarabethx +, writes (22 April 2010):
xsarabethx is verified as being by the original poster of the question Now its even worse D: He still calls me cute even if I told him I want to be friends. He keeps telling me I'm beautiful and he'd date me but when I ask, "Do you like me?" he says no... Its so confusing!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 He has someone and you are his confidant,where he can pour out and share his feelings .
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reader, xsarabethx +, writes (17 April 2010):
xsarabethx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice^-^
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reader, clairabella  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 It really sounds like he's sending mixed messages. I think there's two options to this, which is either 1)that he likes you but doesn't want to pursue it because you get on so well. or 2)he's sending mixed messages to kep you hanging, some people do this because they like people lusting after them, and doesn't want to lose that ego boost. either way, i think you should move on and be with the person that deserves you x
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