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writes:hi cupid i have a girlfriend but we've just broken up and we love each other a lot but problem is that she is sikh and i am hindu and she says her parents wont allow hindu boys. what should i do i cant live with out her plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, raiders  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 I really depends on your girlfriend if she is willing to accept the disapproval of her family.
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reader, clairabella  +, writes (16 April 2010):
 I think you need to fight for her...but if she doesn't want you back then i'm sorry. I had a boyfriend/fiance who was a muslim and i'm catholic, but we wouldnt let any one stand in our way, and even though we broke up in the end, people were coming round to accept it. Love is part of religion surely? And i really think you should talk to a friend, or maybe explain your feelings to your parents. If you keep it bottled up it will be the death of you x
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reader, terrifenby +, writes (16 April 2010):
 You have to respect her dicision to stand by her religion! There is nothing you can do. You also have to respect her parents and your own religion! I know this is not what you want to hear but you have to let her go!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010): Of course you can live without her, stop being so dramatic.
In this case, your relationship would never work because religion is too important to her family.
Move on. You will be upset, and go through painful times, but you will recover, feel better, and meet someone more suitable and who can be with you.
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