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writes:i hav a bf we hav 6 years seeing each other he lives 80miles away frm me....11 months ago he said he had to leave to another state for 4 months for work 4 months went by then 5 months n finally i got just a letter...after 8 months he txt me that he missed me n couldnt wait to come back....then for valentines i got just a card where he said he loves me.....now 11 months, i dont know where hes at his cell # is no longer in service n i write to his house n get no response..my question is should i continue wait for him ? is it worth it...i do love him very much he was my first....n i did promise i would wait for him....but what should i do? plz hlp me... Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 First love is always melodramatic and that is as far as it goes. You cannot tie yourself down to some one who is a rolling stone which gathers no moss.
You may have made a promise to him but did he also promised you a lot of things and never carried them out?
Your promise was not in black and white and you don't need to feel bad about it. It was only applicable then but the situation has changed and is not applicable now.
You need to move on and not wait by the sea shore or you will turned into a stone statue.
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