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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So I've written on this site before about this shy guy I am interested in. I took everyone's advice and made the move (long story short):(Just a background- we both go to school together. He's a bit shy around me. I always catch him staring at me. His friends were trying to get me to put a move on him, without his knowledge.)We went out with our class and he was by the bar. I snuck behind him and pinched him. He didn't move. Then he turned around and I told him he is immune to pinches. (Yes, I am five). Well it worked because he offered to buy me a drink (but I said no because I went up to the bar to buy a drink). I told him he has to be near me because the female bartender only serves guys. So then he offered me his shot that he was about to take with his friends. I accepted =] He walked away after I took the shot.. so I ordered my drink and I felt a tap. He said that I didn't need him afterall to get that drink. We ended up talking for about a half hour.. just non stop. At one point I looked up and everyone left that side of the bar. Our conversation just flowed.. and I never seen him talk so much! It made me happy. Then we moved, I spilled his drink (which he wasn't drinking) and we kept talking until his friend came up and said "What's going on here?!" His friend then said to me "I give you permission to talk to him" so I laughed and said that's ridiculous but thank you. Then his friend said " I know you like him." So I denied it. My crush didn't hear any of this.. but he said he was going to the bathroom. So I left to hang out with my friends. I saw him at one point but then he left (it was getting late). The next day, I saw him and he looked more enthusiastic to see me. He did act a bit shy. I told him he had to tell me the rest of his family history. I added that I wanted full details. Ha. Then I walked away (kind of just to leave the convo short)So now what do I do? Should I just continue the flirtation? And what was up with his friend? (His friend in the past told me that I was his future wife.) And I sensed like we were getting along.. but I'm a bit afraid he's only going to see me as a friend? Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (17 April 2010):
You say you made a move... but I'm trying to spot WHAT you actually did.
You flirted. That's it.
He seems to be more keen so continue flirting and see if he asks you out.
Either that or just ask him out.
Good Luck!! xx
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