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Cheating and lying but I'm still drawn into him... help!

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Question - (24 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm addicted to a guy who has a past of cheating... I still like him... but he's said I'm boring before and it makes me wonder will I keep him interested in the relationship? I am a virgin.. I have decided to wait until I am married to sleep with my husband. I'm 19 and I promised the guy that when he is 25 there is a chance I would consider dating him if were both single.. I mainly said that so he could leave me alone and hoping by then he has changed and I could pursue a relationship with him.. I see how he is with girls and about his lying.. I like him but I don't wanna like him any more, what can I do to get over him??

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2009):

He said you were boring? What a rubbish guy! I think you have the 'bad boy' thing going on here. Deep down inside you want to be the one who makes him suddenly change and be interested only in you. Plenty of women have though the same thing and have always been wrong and hurt. This guy won't change. He's very disrespectful. Phone some of your friends and get out and about socializing. There are plenty of far better guys out there. You'll find one. And good girl for sticking to your beliefs and not letting him use you. Lots of luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009):

you just have to say no to him if he doesnt respect a womans feelings i mean im a lad and women treat me like crap but still if he cheats and doesnt stay virtuous to anyone in particular you have to just move on

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