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36-40,
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writes:I'm in the bigest mess ever and i've never felt so vuerable and helpless in my whole life :-(I'm 32 weeks pregnant leaving me with 8 weeks left until my due date. I'm homeless as iv'e only just plucked up the courage to leave my boyfriend of 6 years.I'm pennyless as the job centre still havent sorted out my income support. I don't have any close friends for support.I'm currnetly staying at my moms house with very limited travel. My mom and her boyfriend don't really want me hear (no it's not these hormomnes makeing me think that).I have never faced a situation were I've had to live on my own before so I'm scared about my survial skills.I don't know what rouite will be best to take. Wether to stay here temp were i'm very sad and lonely, or go to my dads were I will feel wanted and have family around me in this crisis. Their is one problem with going to my dads and thats getting out and about. He lives in the country were their are no buses so I don't know how I would get to doctors appointments to see the midwive and were ever I need to go to sort out houseing as I will need my own place because their is no room for me and the baby.Were I am staying now is a'lot closer to my x boyfriends but my dads house is about 20 miles from the expectant farther so If i stay at my dads house then I would get houseing in that area. I don't know how he would travel to see his daughter and come and pick her up to stay at his house when he dosent even own a car and has no money himself. HELP !!! any advice and support would be much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2009): Wow, you have a seriously complex situation. First, quit worrying about your ex. If he was worth worrying about, you'd still be with him, and he can buy a car and drive- most adults can figure out how to do that... it's NOT HARD.
you need family around you and need to get your sense of self worth back. Forget worrying about "getting out and about" your about to have a kid... your out and about days are numbered... Mothers have had problems like this for generations, and they survived. You'll need to seek assistance in your fathers community. Get involved in a church - involved, not uninvolved and asking for help.
Good luck- Next time take more care and plan better, your bringing an innocent child into this world.
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