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writes:[Moderator note: 2 questions from the same poster are combined here as they are essentially the same question.]My boyfriend of a year told me that we are done. He completely shut me out and was being so rude. I got that we were done but i wanted to know why. He broke my heart and I was so hurt. Just a couple days before he was so sweet and couldnt be nicer. I just dont get this and in my heart i know that we should be together. I dont have any contact with him now since his number is now blocked from my account and I dont think that i should call him. When will he realize what he had in front of him and what a mistake he made. Im trying to stay strong but inside im breaking. Every time I think about him (which is pretty much a lot of my day) all I think about is all of our amazing memories and that kills me.The way he talked to me that night was like he was totally someone else. I didnt get where it was coming from, but I miss him so much. I have never felt so alone in my life. I know that he has to be feeling the same way as I do becuase we have gone through a break up once before. People keep telling me to move on and I deserve much better, but to me, I just want to be with him. I dont know what to do; I dont want to be rejected if i talk to him and I dont want to feel like I let the most important person to me, go. Please help me because he is so important to me and I dont want to make a mistake like I think he is.-----------------second submitted question:Me and my boyfirend of 1 year broke up a couple of days ago. I miss him like you wouldn't believe. I have never felt so down in my life, and I have the feeling s in my heart that he is the one. I know thats crazy to say but truely I mean it. I have been strong and havtn't texted him or called him. I want to but i think I should wait for him to contact me first since after all, he is the one that broke up with me. Im scared though that if he wants me back, hes going to tell himself he cant, and hes not going to talk to me. He is stubborn sometimes and I dont want him to let that keep him from coming back to me when he realizes he needs me. I hope that makes sense haha. Im just worried right now that he is making a really bad mistake and I cant do anything more about it becuase the ball is in his court now. My heart aches everyday and I want him back. Please help me, thanks so much!
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (25 September 2009):
 im so sorry to hear about this. This has happened recently to me, i kno exactly how you feel. And that hes rejecting you, and you want him, you'll do anything, change anything jst to be with him, thing is. when you do this, it puts him off even more. :S This will be hard for you. but you need to face it, you guys are over. Im sorry, tears welling up? yeah, i know the feeling. Seeing him will kill you, best thing i found was jst to ignore them, dont look at him, even though you wana see his perfect face that used to smile at you...keep busy, anything, from hanging with friends to baking(cookies are good :P) and you will feel that they've made a mistake, your the best thing in his life? You guys know each other better than anyone? yeah, guys are c****. :/ You deserve better, i know you dont want anyone else, but in time, you will get better. Talking about it always helps.If you ever need someone who totaly gets what you mean. Im here, contact me. xx
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