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writes:my girlfriend told me randomly one morning when she was really horny that she had dreamt about us having a mmf threesome. i was schocked at the time and i was pretty much speechless as she masturbated just thinking of the idea. later she took it back and said she had only said those things for me, and that they really weren't her desires; however, it wasn't the first time she had a dream like that. while scrolling through the browsing history on our computer the other night, i discoverd a list dating back for months. and everytime she looks at porn she looks a group sex. sometimes two girls and a guy. many times two guys and a girl. but sometimes they multiple couples all switching off and taking turns wiht each other. she likes it when i strech her down there with my fingers and i started talking dirtier to her. with a magic wand in her hand i was nearly able to fit my whole hand inside of her. whoa.anyway, i think she wants to try it with more dudes but wants it to be spontaneous you know.what are your thoughts on how to do this the right way
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 September 2009):
Sounds like it her fantasy. Keep it as a fantasy. Don't go for a threesome, because it probably won't work out. However, certainly keep up the other things that she likes.
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reader, Roadster73 +, writes (24 September 2009):
 hello
I am very similar to your lady? Me & my other half do this thing we call "bubble sex" where for the few hours we have sex, we involve a 3rd person (there r not really there) we both tell the other one what we would be doing to that person & it gets very rude & very dirty & I & he cum much more & harder than normally bit as soon as we r finished we don't mention it as it's pure fantasy?? In real life I would find my husband a good seeing too , highly erotic but in really life I am way to jealous to let that happen & he is the same, If I came home one day to him with someone else wanting a 3 some I would properly want to punch him? I an guessing your girlfriend is just like me & it's the fantasy of it she likes not the real thing?
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reader, sugarplum101 +, writes (24 September 2009):
I would say there are three rules about group sex:1. Make sure you really are comfortable with this. If you have any doubts at all about how you will feel having someone else do your girl while you watch then you shouldn't do it. Rent some porn, talk dirty about it, and share her fantasy that way. Women are often even more jealous then men when it comes to you sleeping with another woman. Insecurities will come back to haunt you. If you think either one of you will pick it apart and worry that the extra person was more attractive, better in bed, whatever...don't do it. You can't take it back.2. Lay down the rules that you are comfortable with before you do it. If she doesn't want you coming in someone else or you don't want her kissing someone else...define your boundaries as a couple before your threesome/groupsex experience. You may be surprised by what would make her uncomfortable. Make sure the other people involved know what your limits are and you know what theirs are. Make it very clear if you feel that sex with someone else while you are not there would be cheating. Make sure you are also clear on your partners expectations in this area. If you can't discuss this openly and explicitly with your partner and the person/people you intend to sleep with then this is not for you. Your relationship isn't open enough for this type of sex. 3. Do not sleep with people that you socialize with all of the time. Don't bring your best friend or her best friend into bed. I know you may think well I trust these people. But think about it. There is going to be a sexual undertone between you at every barbecue, office meeting whatever. And jealousy will creep in. Also, there will kind of be the expectation for everyone to get naked all the time. Also, how are you supposed to act when you or your partner is alone with your extra...jealousy happens and it's ugly. It's better to find partners that you only go out with when you plan on having sex with them so that you and your girlfriend can control the environment and frequency. Good luck :)
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (24 September 2009):
 Well young man...You better be real confident in your relationship with her in order to do this. You better make sure you are going to be able to handle watching your GF moan perhaps a little more differently or deeper or louder with this guy in her.Because if you have any apprehensions about this when it occurs, it will blow up in your face.I have been involved in group sex situations before and one time in particular I made the female have a massive orgasm and her BF was very upset when she pushed him away and latched on to me. So make sure its what you wantIf you both can handle it, then its up to you. However I suggest rather than looking at porn or websites you spend time discussing this at length with her. I want you to make sure that the Spit Roast of your GF is really what you want, because if you cant handle it, you are in for a world of hurt.
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