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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, this is a very silly situation that probably gets asked everyday but I can't go to my best friend because she cant give serious advise without taking the mikky of me. A year ago I met a boy at my friends brother at a party he was going out with someone then but a week later he added me on msn and we got talking. it was all very embarrassing one of those my mate asked a girl out for me and I didn't ask him to kind of things except i was the girl. he was super sweet about it and then he really did ask me out. we went out he was incredible he took he on my first proper date he paid for everything kissed me when i got off the bus in front of loads of people held my hand he wasn't ashamed of me in front of his friends.A month along that line and it all turned belly up. I was having a fight with a friend and she was playing games on him saying I'd dumped him. then he dumped me, by text, after we had spent the day together. after that i always wanted to just be with him all the time i got a bit paranoied and crazy and well i think i made him glad that he dumped me. i let out my inner demons out, they screamed the fact that i was still im love with him. but we made up around a month after he dumped me and i could stand in the same corridor as him and not feel anything.the relationships i'v had that really meant something to me always ended on unfinished terms with me...well there's only been two but still. A year on after we've both dated different people I start seeing him the way i did before. And every time i look at him he seems to be looking at me but he looks in a different direction as soon as he realises. I caught his friend pointing at me the other day when ii was down the field hanging with my girls, they've noticed some thing's up and wont stop bothering me about what it is but I cant bring myself to tell them cuz they've herd it all before from everyone else.Please help I can't get him outta my head what should i do, get over it (considering my past, impossible)or start talking to him again and hope it goes somewhere?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 September 2009):
I'm not sure he's mature enough for a relationship with you. He dumped you by text for no good reason, so that really says it all. Throw yourself into your school work and just stay clear of boyfriends for the moment. You're still young, so there is no rush at all. There will be other guys out there waiting. This guy doesnt' sound ready and I'm not really sure he knows what he wants.
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