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writes:I wrote a question recently about a guy who I am communicating with via text, email and phone. I am a widow and he is divorced. I have kids, he does not, but mine think he is great. I am so confused right now. After being married for almost 20 years (lived together since I was 18)I don't know what I am doing. I like this guy but I have no idea how he feels about me. He is coming to visit this weekend, staying over too, I get the feeling he wants to be friends and that the continual communication is just his way. I am not used to this kind of attention and not sure how to take it. Do I just come right out and ask him what he wants. I think I may need alcahol to get a bit braver, and even then I feel like I might make a fool of myself. I would really like him to just walk up and kiss me - If only I could know what he wanted out of this relationship. How do I ask him???I don't want to lose his friendship either but I feel like I am on hold at the moment. Any suggestions?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 September 2009):
Please be very careful when you meet him if you haven't met him before. Meet in a public space and be safe. (That is very important!). If he's coming to visit and his intentions are honourable, then it sounds as if he likes you. Just take this slowly. Being a widow (and I'm sorry about that), there is a possibilty that he could be using you. I'm not trying to put you off, I just don't want you to get hurt. Take it slowly and get to know him before you do anything else at all. All the best.
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