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Should I hit him up or move on?

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Question - (24 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *lwayznd4eva116 writes:

im soo sad. this guy that i have been talking to for over a year, has decided that he doesnt want to talk to me anymore. we always argue and go through the same conversations about me not listening. he wants me to do everything he says and when i do, he still manages to find something wrong. the last thing he told me was that i was still in "kid mode". im 18 and hes 31.. so i guess because im so young, thats always his excuse for not wanting to be bothered. so after he told me he was done, and to move on, i havent hit him up since. its been over a week and i miss him soo much. we've been through a lot, a pregnacy, that i didnt keep, and a whole lot more over this past year. the thing is, i dnt know if he really meant it this time. the time before that, he swore to his dead parents that he was never goin to speak to me again but hyt me up two weeks later. my question is, did he really mean it this time? should i hit him up or just move on?

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A female reader, alwayznd4eva116 United States +, writes (26 September 2009):

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alwayznd4eva116 agony aunteasier said then done. but i kinda knew that, i guess i just didnt want to accept the fact that it was true. i deleted his number out ny phone, and its been two weeks since i hyt him up. its killing me because i really miss him, but i guess its for the best. thanxx.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2009):

He's using you. No easy way to say it. he's not interested in in any other way than to ue you. Break all contact with him and find yourself a lovely nice guy who'll treat you the way wou should be treated.

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