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female
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30-35,
*irtylilsecret
writes:I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past year and a half and we have split up a few times but we have said this is the last time we are going to try because its hurting us both to much splitting up all the time but now it just feels like hes not as interested as he used to be, should i just wait till he trusts me again then will it get better or will it carry on like this from now on?He used to be so loving and always giving me compliments and attention but now he is doing a managers course at work and has just took a second job on to afford where he is living and never seems to have any time for me any more and never seems to miss me like he used to. We used to live together then I moved back to my parents because we split up. When we got back together he kept saying to me that he regrets me moving out and he wants us to live together again. I really want to live with him again, I miss him so much when he's not around and just want it to go back to how it used to be. I'm only 19 and this is my first proper love and I'm so scared of losing him but scared that if I tell him how I'm feeling he will call me clingy and leave me cus he has told me he wants to take it slow when I asked about moving back in with him.
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reader, ChristianGirl +, writes (24 September 2009):
constantly working can be hard on any realationship. especially if youre just dating and not living together, it means that theres hardly any time for the two of you to have alone time. As youre not living together i suggest takeing your time going on dates like you do when you start dating, prehaps consider a date night. explain to him that you miss the way things used to be but youre willing to take things slow. leave it a while until he trusts you again, at least a bit more than he does now. after a while things should be much better then you might be able to bring up the idea of living together, highlight the good points to this for example the decreased rent. this way you will have a lot more time for socialising and alone time, your relationship should go from strength to strength.
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