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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend wants to have phone sex with me. I would love to try it but an not sure what to do to make it enjoyable for him. I know to moan and breathe heavy and that kind of stuff, but what else do guys like. What are some things I can say to him that will really make him go crazy?
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reader, Illithid +, writes (24 September 2009):
 Anonymous has a good point. (The swearing would depend on how you and your guy talk, but I mean the other point.)Feel free to masturbate yourself while you talk if you can effectively talk while you do. Your breathing and moaning will be all the more real, and he'll enjoy knowing that what you're saying is getting you as hot as it is him. I've been pushed over the edge before by hearing my girl as she finished.Also, a nice perk to phone sex is that you can educate him on what you want from him. While he'll love hearing you describe his fantasies and favorites, you should also mix in things you like so he'll know what you want and what turns you on. And since you're not actually doing any of this, you can branch out and describe things that you'd never actually do (like sex in public).
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reader, Logan58 +, writes (24 September 2009):
Listen to Illithid!! He knows exactly what is good. I had phone sex before and my girl did the exact thing, and I honestly loooved it....
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): sWEAR LIKE CRAZY! F***, OHH YEAAH! moan ALOT! they wanna hear it! and maybe even just finger yourself so he get the real moans of pleasue!
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reader, Illithid +, writes (24 September 2009):
Just tell him, in graphic detail, what you would like to do to him if he were there with you. Basically narrate your perfect sexual encounter with him. Your moaning and breathing can be used as a little emphasis on some points.
If you mention him entering you, breath deep. If you talk about him touching you ~moan~, as you want more of it and ~gasp~ he's so good at finding all those little spots on you ~ahhh~. You just want to do this and that to him and then you get on top and ~moan~ he feels so good.
Picture yourself having sex with him (foreplay, teasing, and the real deal) and tell him what you're thinking, and moan or breath deeply whenever you would if this were real, to make it easier for him to picture it.
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reader, girlygirl2009 +, writes (24 September 2009):
Describe everything that you would do to him if he was there with you. Then picture what he would be doing to you.
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