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anonymous
writes: Okay im just curious and just a lil confused. When a girl has sex with the guy, withought a condom where does all the cumm go? does it stay in or does it come back out. And when girls clean their genatalia waht/how do they do it ive heard of doochebags i just dont understans how dats works. does that mean every girl has a dooche bag? can someone explain to me so i can further understand? thanks
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 September 2009):
You have been told by the ladies here not to douche. So don't!
As for the cum, some of it stays in, some doesn't. Always use a condom. And if you don't understand all there is about sex, don't do it!
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reader, Illithid +, writes (24 September 2009):
 I had an old friend that would put in a tampon after her boyfriend finished in her, so it could soak up a lot of the cum, but some girls wash out with water and soap, or leave it in for a while, or even let it drip out while imitating a porn star. But whatever they do, it's going to come out eventually.
Douching is just washing out with a bag of fluid, if I'm not mistaken.
Now, the chemicals in cum, when in contact with her vaginal walls, do release a natural mood elevator into your girlfriend. Besides the normal happiness from having had sex and an orgasm (or two), the semen itself is good for her insides... IF she's on birth control or you feel you're ready for a son.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (24 September 2009):
 Well to the women out there you need to understand that you are very mysterious to uninitiated young men. It is part of why men are so captivated by you.
To the young man douche is from the Greek word for shower. It is a rather old fashioned way for keeping the inside parts of the female genitalia clean. It was also used as a somewhat uncomfortable and inefficient contraceptive method. That is why douche bag is a derogatory term now. Most women will never really need to use one, as the vagina is very much a self cleaning organ. You may still see them in stores as old habits hang on. And sometimes a girl just likes to feel cleaner.
As to the cum. Some often falls out right away. Some will stay in a seminal pool near the cervix for several days, waiting for the right time to fertilize the egg. Some times the fluids in sex can irritate the external genitalia and the vagina. So it is wise to wash up after sex. All of the bodily fluids are water soluble so only use a mild soap, or just water.
I'm a believer in good education. There are no dumb questions. you may have offended some women by using the term douche bag, which is not used in polite company.
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reader, Lib1 +, writes (24 September 2009):
 I remember the first time I was going to let a boyfriend cum inside me without a condom. I called a friend and asked what happened. For all I knew it was absorbed.
Well it doesn't. I have to say its pretty gross. Think of it as someone cumming in someone's mouth but the mouth can't swallow. The cum has nowhere to go but dribble out. I wash it out in the bathtub with running water and my fingers. My friend, which I think is gross, just lets it go out on her panties overnight then change it in the morning. Everyone is different as to how they choose to clean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): Well, if this is serious. The cum does all run out. No we don't have douche bags. We just wash with soap and water and a face cloth or our hand just like you do.
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