G/f broke up with me because of arguments! I want her back!

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so me nd my gf 4 3 nd half weeks got into in argument and she broke up wit me 2day...it started last week i found in her fone tlkn 2one her exs who i thot she had a major problem with.sayin how he controlled her nd played her..sayin i have feelings 4 u still but dont get a big head..how she described it she was like remember wen we were layin under the stars i made a wish that u would choose me over her(his current gf).i got mad nd she said they r jus friends ya i have feelings 4him but i wudnt act on em..the next day they go out drinkin them nd sum other friends of theirs..she gets drunk nd blames buyin cigarettes on bein drunk 4rm one can of beer.she threw the pack away nd didnt smoke nething( she promised me to stop smokin nd she did).so i argued bout that but got over it...nd he got drunk nd was bein stupid with her nd called her in the mornin threatening 2get her fired from her job..so she said she had it with him nd all the feelings r gone..later the day he apologizes nd she accepts i get mad nd he tlks 2 me cuz she gave him my number..so i gave him that 1chance..i told her not 2 drink wit him nd let me kno if u do decide 2 go drinkin..yesterday nite/this mornin at 2 am i text her she said her fone was in her purse nd shes with friends..wen shes with me shes always textn friends.i tell her that nd she says sorry ur rite...we text couple messages then the guy takes her fone nd messages as her sayin stupid stuff.like how she wants all the guys cocks nd she wants it in evry hole nd stuff that disrespected me..i dont appreciate sum1 tlkn 2my girl like that..her curfew is 230 i ask y she not in on time nd thats wen the guys text me..she ended up goin home at 5.she like ill prolly get in trouble.lol...so i get mad like u can hang out with them that late.they worth gettn in trouble 4but im not...she messges me sumtin then i text bak but she fell asleep on me..today i tell her all the stuff how i felt disrespected nd how she should.nd that he was disrespecting u nd he admitted 2playing u but u dont care.she like were friends friends mess round..i told her she has feelings 4 him.nd she says no its just as friends..i was like its clear he comes first b4 me. that ur gon b there 4him no matter wut.she didnt reply..later i went to the pool w/ my friend nd his gf(my gf sister)..i went nd held her she moved away nd gave me that look like im not comfortable with u get the hell away from me...she left i asked her wuts wrong she said i dont wanna tlk bout it..so i hugged her she wudnt kiss me.jus a milllisecond of a kiss on the lips..we went bak to theyre house she seemed fine we were tlkn laughin.she went inside 2take s shower.she kissed me twice on the lips,not long but not short like b4..i was bout 2 leave as she was out of the shower..i asked her to tell me wuts wrong.she said it has something to do with u.so she comes outside nd didnt wanna tell me at first cuz my friend was in the car..then she like ok..i feel horrible but i dont think i can b your gf..were not on the same level if u kno wut i mean(i didnt)..shes like i cant handle the arguments we get into.i cant have a bf rite now.we cud b friends rite now and if sumthin happens later than fine..i needa focus on myself rite now..i told her ill b there 4her no matter what nd how much she means 2 me..she says i still care about u.then i left..i text her askin if theres a chance in the future..she say i cant tell the future but nethings possible...is there anyway 2 make sure she comes bak 2 me??i love her nd dont wanna lose her.i dont want ne1 else nor do i want her with ne1 else..i told her ima work on myselfnd not b jealous or in business nemore cuz i know the pain it causes.she nevr replied...i want her back help me out plzzz???

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