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writes: I have a problem that I know I will have to wait to act. I live in a rural town and i'm in a class of 50 students. my friend is going out with another one of my girl friends. i have a major crush on her but i cant make a move cuz its homecoming week. i also cant do it anytime soon because i have no way to get around until summer '10. i need some advice asap
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 September 2009):
She's going out with your friend, so she's untouchable. Get over your crush and don't make a move at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): The first link is to someone in the same position as you and it may help you decide what to do if youre looking at someone else's problem rather than your own. The second link is to someone who's friend fancies the person they want to go out with so it could help you see your problem from your friends point of view.I hope this helps and please comment on these questions because it's always good when you help eachother. Good luck!http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-could-she-hurt-me-like-that.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-say-yes-to-date-this-boy.html
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reader, OzBloke +, writes (24 September 2009):
My mates and I always had a rule of never dating the same girls. Any girl could only date one of us. If that relationship didn't work out, none of us would date her afterward.
I know not all groups work like that, but I think most people agree that while your friend is with her, you should just leave them be and not interfere.
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