I never get included in things with "friends"

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am in my last year at high school. throughout high school I have always hung out with the same group and considered them to be my friends. However, whenever they hang out outside of school they never invite me. They usually go to "Steve's" house on the weekend. Once i asked "Steve" what was going on on the weekend, he simply responded with "you know tomorrow's saturday, right?" implying that they never hang out outside of school, even though i know for a fact that this is a lie. I am very quiet and rarely talk, because i have nothing to say to contribute to the conversations. this prevents me from making new friends to hang out with, even though i am friendly with most people in school. I assume that some of you will say that they aren't worth it and if they don't want to be my friends they don't deserve to have me as a friend, but the thing is that i have nobody else to sit with at school.

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A male reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 September 2009):

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