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writes:So right now I find myself in a situation that I've been in before; and I don't like it at all.. I was with my most recent ex for only about one month (he just broke up with me two days ago). Now I know, this is a really, really short time that I've been involved with the guy, but I can honestly say I have never had such strong feelings for a guy in this short a time. He's the sweetest guy I've met, he actually treated me with respect, and best of all my parents actually really liked him. The reason he broke up with me was because he said he was always busy with work, and he felt that it wasn't fair to either of us because we weren't seeing each other. I can see where he's coming from, but still I'm confused. This guy bought a car to be able to come see me, sold a computer to pay for the car insurance..but he broke up with me..? That just kind of confused me..He told me that he just wanted to be friends for now, that he still wanted to hang out when he could, and that he was sorry. Now I'm just confused, when he said just friends for now, does that mean he wants to be more again later..? And does it sound like he's telling me the truth or feeding me lies..? I feel ashamed that I have to ask that question, but in the relationship before him, the guy told me the same thing, lied to me, and got with another girl.Please can someone help me with this, I don't know what to do, and he's just so different..I don't want to sound cheesy, but I don't want to lose him, especially since there was nothing wrong in our relationship thus far. He's really something special to me. Please help
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 September 2009):
Open up to him. The only way to see how he really feels is to speak to him. So be brave and tell him.
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reader, Logan58 +, writes (24 September 2009):
Omg, girl. It seems as if he loves you so he doesnt wanna not be there for you. He thinks it isnt fair for you two to never see each other and doesnt want you to feel lonely or hurt.. Its obvious he still loves you.. He has got to be torn since he likes you but yet feels that he is doing wrong for not being with you when in the relationship..
Tell him how you feel about it, and maybe he will open up! :D
~Logan, 16
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